Saturday, June 16, 2012

Chelsea & Brent: Sneak Peek!








Congratulations, guys! It was an honor to photograph your day!

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Thursday, June 7, 2012

DIY Boutonnieres!

Like so many brides these days, I have conquered our wedding preparations in full DIY style, making my own save the dates, invitations, reception decorations, neckties, flower arrangements & more!

It's a lot of fun doing things myself, with the help of my parents (yes, even Dad has gotten involved!) & maids. There's a sense of satisfaction knowing I've created these things for our wedding, giving personal attention to each tiny detail that I'm hoping will fulfill my dream wedding & be appreciated by our guests.

Today on my list of DIY projects was boutonniers! I forged ahead, with my silk flowers, floral tape, twine & wire cutters in hand!

I had previously chosen country-inspired silk flowers, so I snipped them to the desired length, wrapped them tight in floral tape & finished the look with wrapped twine. I love the country-chic effect, and I'm excited for my men to wear them! (I know they're thrilled too, haha!)












Signs of Summer

"Then followed that beautiful season...Summer....Filled was the air with a dreamy and magical light; and the landscape lay as if new created in all the freshness of childhood." 

~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

 

I love this time of year. When the grass is bright kelly green, thick under my toes, and cool. I love when the birds sing at dawn, waking me hours earlier than in the winter. I love the colorful blooms that line my country roads, and the sweet smell of nature.


I know there's still a few weeks until it's officially summer, but I can taste it, and it's beautiful.









Cha cha cha changes...

My life has been full of changes lately, but let me assure you, everything is good.


For the past few years, my sole focus has been on my photography business. I was done with school, single, living back in my home town, and felt secure enough to throw everything I had into my photography. My evenings were spent researching, blogging, networking & trying to grow my business. Which, I'm proud to say I did.


Now in my third year of going solo, I'm proud of the work I've done, and the steps I've taken. I'm thankful for the people I've met, and the people who have encouraged me along the way. I set up a strong foundation for myself, and I know from here out, I'll only continue to grow upon that.


But for the last few months, my focus has shifted a bit.


In meeting Andrew, getting engaged, planning our wedding & preparing to be a (step) mom, my priorities have had to shift. My schedule now accommodates for softball games, family time & a lot of hours on the road driving between Binghamton & Utica.


It's been a busy time, a time full of changes, but let me assure you, everything is good.


You may ask, how are these changes effecting your business?


And my answer: not a whole lot.


I'm still focusing on my clients, still devoting my time to weddings, consultations and web presence. But I've let certain seasonal promotions pass, allowing me more time with my soon-to-be family. So if you've noticed that I'm not doing senior portraits, or family sessions as much, that is why. I've taken a small step back.


You may also be asking: What are the long term changes for your business?


And my answer: Also, minimal.


After September 1st, my business will be located outside of Binghamton, NY. Andrew is in the beginning stages of building me an in-home studio where I will be able to work, hold sessions, meet with clients & grow! I am so excited for this opportunity, and thankful for Andrew, and his support of my work, I know this will be a great blessing!


But because I started my business in Utica, I have a strong base here, and will continue to work here even though I will be living outside of Binghamton. So if you are a Utica area bride, don't let my move scare you, I will still be here frequently, and available to you any time.


Long term, I'm excited to be able to expand my client base into Binghamton, nearby Pennsylvania, & be able to reach more people. So if you're a Binghamton area bride, start spreading the word!


Exciting changes are taking place in my personal life & also my business, but I assure it, everything is good.






Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Wedding Planning: What I've learned!

It's been a fun experience planning my wedding, but I don't think I'm like every other bride. I have a definite advantage having worked in the wedding industry for the last 4 years.


No, having my entire wedding planned within a month is definitely not normal, but it's very possible. The key for me was knowing what to do first, how to organize my thoughts/vision & lastly, and possibly the most important thing: remembering my own voice through the planning process.


So how did I do it? Let's break those last 3 things down a bit more:


1. What to do first?: Prioritize!

The key to prioritizing tasks is to first break your wedding day down into parts; focusing on choosing month, day, ceremony location, reception location & then taking each part and breaking it down into smaller sub groups such as: time of day, ceremony details and reception details. Once this is done, you will be able to see your day in it's entirety & you won't be stressed you out.


Breaking down your day, and conquering these first larger tasks will make you feel secure, allowing all the details to work themselves out and fall into place.


It may seem like a lot of work, but it will be worth it in the end.


2. Organizing your thoughts/vision!

It's true, I am an over-organizer. I just can't help it, it's how I clear my brain. When my life is in perfect little sub-departments, I am at my happiest! haha! Though my organizational needs may seem crazy for day to day living, they are perfect for wedding planning!


So you've searched the web, read lots of blogs, flipped through wedding magazines, and you have all of these ideas floating around in your brain, what do you DO with them? How do you fit them all together?


Make a Wedding Folder.  

Mine is purple. And it's where I keep everything wedding related. I have a section for receipts, vendor information, guest list & to-do list. If it's wedding related, it's in my folder. I also carry my checkbook, calculator & pen in this folder, so I am always ready to wheel & deal. 

This folder will be your best friend & will help keep all of your thoughts in one place. 


3. Remembering your own voice: How to handle advice!

From the moment the news went up on Facebook that I was engaged, I have received ideas & opinions from everyone I've ever known & even some people I don't know! 

Everyone loves a wedding, and everyone wants to be involved, but the hard truth is: This is your wedding, and you deserve to have it the way you've always dreamed. Not the way your best friend, mother, or in-law always dreamed. 

This can be one of the hardest parts of planning a wedding, because no one wants to hurt anyone, or ignore someone's advice, but in the end, it really is up to you to enforce your vision and make your voice heard.


Get your family & friends involved, and once they see your vision, I promise they will want to support you in that. 


I'm certainly not an expert, but these are the things I've learned while planning, and I hope these thoughts will help one of you brides to be.


Happy Planning!














Sunday, April 22, 2012

Engaged!

 You may have noticed that I've been pretty absent from the blogging world lately. I've had quite a lot going on in my life, and I'm just now sitting down to process it all & express what's been going on in my heart.

The last two months have been quite a whirlwind for me. God has been working on my heart, stretching me, shaping me, forcing me to grow. Life can really change quickly, and the last few months have been a perfect testament to that.

I met a boy.

His name is Andrew, and when we first met, I wasn't so sure he was the guy for me. I had always pictured myself meeting a guy, becoming friends, dating, falling in love, getting married, buying a house, having kids & growing old together. In that order. In a neat little package. Wrapped up in a perfect little bow.

But Andrew was non of those things.

Andrew was a widower with two little girls. There was a greater responsibility, a greater calling, a greater risk. And I wasn't sure that I was the girl for the job.

That was late February.

In those first weeks I did a lot of crying. I cried because I felt so torn between what my heart was telling me I could do, and what society was telling me was normal. I cried for Andrew & the girls, and the pain they'd already been through. I cried because I doubted myself and my capabilities, and the fear of hurting them again broke my heart. 

But then I started talking it through with people who could offer me godly wisdom. I stopped thinking of just myself and those crazy plans I had made as a little girl. I started praying and asking God His opinion for my life, and started letting Him direct my heart, and my path.

And then I did a lot more crying, seeing just how good, gracious, faithful, and merciful my God was to bring this man into my life, and allow me the opportunity to love him, and be loved by him.

See, God works in mysterious ways, and has plans for us that we could never even dream for ourselves.

Just days before meeting Andrew, this is what I wrote in my journal: 

"...Because, like I said earlier, I was taught about God's love a long time ago, and even when my heart is broken, I still trust that He has a plan for me, and has a purpose for this stage in my life, for this time of singleness. I never give up hope in His plan, even on the hardest days. I may not have chosen this path, but I know He is still leading me, and will one day, bring me my hearts desire..."

Isn't it amazing to see how God is working for us, even when we don't know it, or can't see it? That is the most important thing about keeping hope in your heart. You never know what God has planned, so you can't give up.

So Andrew and I made the decision to move forward into a relationship. We decided we were in this together, and that if God wanted us to stay together, He was going to work it out & we were going to follow.

It didn't take long before we knew we were in love. Four dates to be exact. To some it may seem fast, but it felt perfect for us.

The important thing that you can't miss in this is that yes, by a worldly time line it was fast, but God's timing is not ours, and He had been working this out years before Andrew & I ever met.

It's truly a beautiful thing.

We started talking about wedding plans after date 4, knowing it was inevitable, just not knowing when. We made plans for next spring, but decided a year engagement wasn't necessary for us, and settled on this fall. I had most of the wedding planning done before he even proposed, and that became sort of a joke around the household.

But somewhere around date 5 Andrew came to talk to my parents, asked their blessing to marry me, and accepted my Grandma's engagement ring to have reset for me. We went ring shopping right away, and I'm not sure I've ever squealed more than I did that day looking at all the sparkle before me, it was great.

So I knew the engagement was coming, I just didn't know when.

So last week when I was on a random shopping trip to Barnes & Noble with my Mom, let me tell you how surprised I was to look up and see Andrew! Two hours away from where he was supposed to be that day, 2 days early for the date we had planned that week! I knew the minute I saw him why he had come, and my heart did flip flops inside my chest just thinking about it.

He brought me to a park we had visited before, and up to the gazebo, and knelt down on one knee and read me a letter he had written. I'm not sure I heard every word when he first read it to me, I think my head was swimming, but when he was done, he asked me to marry him, and I said yes.

It was the happiest moment of my life.

The date is set for September 1st, of this year.

I can hardly believe the twist my path has taken, but it's here and it's real, and God really does work in amazing ways.

I'M GETTING MARRIED!

After all these years of seeing other couples in love & helping other brides plan, it's finally my turn, and I am embracing every moment.

I tell you all of this to encourage you. Whatever path you find yourself on, never lose hope, and always know that God has a plan for your life, and He IS working it out.

I know the struggle of wanting to know the future right now, I know the frustration of wanting answers immediately, but the truth is, sometimes we have to wait.

And if there's anything I could tell you young single girls out there, it would be to wait for God's best for you. Don't settle for the world's best, don't settle for the wrong guy. God has a perfect plan for you, and it's worth the wait.



 






Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Devotional Break

I've always loved Charles Spurgeon. There's something about his direct speech that captures my attention, and though some people may find him harsh, I find his heart beautiful and inviting. I also appreciate how today's publishers have kept Spurgeon's orginal Old English, it somehow demands more respect in my opinion.

I loved this passage from today's devotional...they are hard demands, but expected of us just the same. And with the anniversary of a dear friends home-going today, the end of this devotional hit me in a different way, allowing me to picture Pat seated at the feet of Jesus, hearing 'Well done, good & faithful servant'...

We run this race only for a while, and though the demands on us may seem overbearing at times, we have such glory waiting for us in heaven.

Kind of makes you look at things differently, doesn't it?....

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"...Be much more in prayer.
Spend longer time in holy adoration.
Read the Scriptures more earnestly and constantly.
Watch your lives more carefully.
Live nearer to God.
Take the best examples for your pattern.
Let your conversation be redolent of heaven.
Let your hearts be perfumed with affection for men's souls.

So live that men may take knowledge of you that you have been with Jesus, and learned of Him; and when that happy day comes, when He whom you love shall say: 'Come up higher', may it be your happiness to hear Him say: 'Thou hast fought a good fight, thou hast finished thy course, and henceforth there is laid up for thee a crown of righteousness which fadeth not away..."  

- From 'Morning & Evening'- C.H. Spurgeon

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Happy Wednesday! 
 

Remembering You...

Today marks a year since my friend, Pat, went to be with our LORD. Her home-going has been hard for a lot of people, but I know Heaven is happy to have her...

I bet she's growing sunflowers, and sharing her beautiful smile with everyone she sees. She may even be giving out old-fashioned, homemade Mainer remedies! haha! I'm remembering her today & thanking God for the time we had her here...



From my journal: March 14, 2011:


"The LORD gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of The LORD” - Job 1:21
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This Friday morning I had the blessing of watching my third beautiful nephew enter this world. I heard his first cry, as fresh air entered his lungs. I saw his little face shy away from the light, and his ears turn towards the noises around him. My heart swelled with the wonder of this little baby before me, and in that moment I gave his little life over to our Father, praising Him for blessing our family with this little boy. I'm sure in the years ahead, there will be many more moments like this....when I'll need to give his care over to The God of Heaven, and acknowledge that He knows best, and that He loves this little one even more than we do...

Today I got home from work to discover a sadness in my home. A sadness that has gripped my heart, as I mourn the Home-going of a dear friend, and faithful saint. Pat has gone Home to Glory; and today, the angels are rejoicing as another child is welcomed into the Holy City, but here on Earth, tears are being shed. But because of Christ's loving sacrifice for us, I know that I can put Pat in His hands, knowing that she's safe right now, knowing that I'll see her again one day.

He gives and takes away. Blessed be the Name of The LORD.

A life is given, a life is taken. Blessed be the Name of The LORD.

At some point in life, we all have to decide to give our loved ones over to Christ. We have to put them in His hands, knowing that He is a merciful God, knowing that He is a good God, knowing that He is a loving God.

We have to trust His will, and trust that He is working everything out for the good. We have to keep living, we have to keep believing, even when everything within you is screaming out in pain.

We have to keep praising, blessed be the name of The LORD!

It's a lesson that I think I'll have to keep relearning as I continue on my journey, because every time something like this happens, it's natural to ask God 'why?'. It's natural to get angry, and wish for a different outcome. But as I get closer to my Jesus, I realize that He is crying right along side me, entering into my pain, and holding me up when I can't. He's walking beside me everyday, holding out His hand, and telling me to put my burden on Him. He's inviting me let go, inviting me to rest, inviting me to peace.

But the question is...will I trust Him enough, to take hold of that peace?

Can I truly say that in giving and taking away, the Name of The LORD shall be praised?

As we enter the Easter Season, I'm reminded of this song. It's always been a favorite of mine, and every yr as I watch the sun rise on Easter morning I imagine what it will look like one day when Jesus comes back, and the Heavens are opened up, and everyone will see His glory. What a beautiful day to look forward to!

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Because He Lives:

"How sweet to hold a newborn baby,
And feel the pride and joy he gives.
But greater still the calm assurance,
This child can face uncertain days because He lives.

Because He lives, I can face tomorrow.
Because He lives, All fear is gone.
Because I know He holds the future,
And life is worth the living just because He lives.

And then one day I'll cross the river,
I'll fight life's final war with pain.
And then as death gives way to victory,
I'll see the lights of glory and I'll know He lives!"

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Blessed be the Name of The LORD.


Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Glimpses of Spring!

I was working on a Senior Portrait project today, remembering the sweetness of summer, and while I was editing, something wonderful happened: the sun came out!

I love natural sunlight so much, and really crave it. That's one of the reasons I chose a room that faces the south west, so I get a lot of afternoon sun right on my desk.

The last few weeks have been unseasonably warm, but I will take it. These transitional days between seasons may only be a tease for now, but Spring isn't far away!

I'll leave you with a few of the images I worked on today. Eventually they will be part of an album, showcasing Megan's Senior Portraits, how fun!